Buddy is nearly 3 and I've only just got brave enough to give him raw bone this week
If you are a bit worried and paranoid chicken wings are good to start on as the bones are easy to crunch up and it will literally just slide down the dogs throat after a bit of crunching
Cooked bones are the big no no!!! This is where the horror stories of choking, blockages etc comes from...cooked bones can be dangerous.
However raw (fresh or frozen) bones are great for a treat!
If you would like to feed a raw diet instead of a complete kibble then there is a bit more to it than just chucking them a chicken wing...they must have certain percentages of meat,bone and offal for it to be a healthy balanced diet. But I'm sure somebody experienced in BARF diet can give you more info
Good luck guys...be brave
Buddy loves his! We will be building up to lamb legs and beef bones soon!!